Did you not converse your partner for weeks? Do fights often break out over trivial or easily avoidable issues? In essence, is your relationship in doldrums and you feel the need of somebody to help you out solve these issues? It may be time for marriage counseling. Marriage counseling can help you find the bone of contention in your relationship and help you rebuild your relationship. Marriage counselors can decide that you will both be better off if you split up.

There is no place for any misunderst.anding in the relationship as it can make or break your relationship. Marriage counselors help you understand your relationship better and make well-thought-out decisions.

What is marriage counseling?

 Marriage counseling, also known as couples therapy, helps couples improve their relationships and understand and resolve conflicts. Marriage counseling suggests couples ways to negotiate differences, communicate better, enhance their problem solving abilities and lead a healthy life.

However, a marriage counseling is often short term and only a few sessions can help you weather a crises. But in certain cases you might need the services of marriage counselors for several months, specially when your relationship has buggered up to a great extent. As with individual psychotherapy, you typically visit a marriage counselor once a week.

Who can benefit from marriage counseling?

Seeking perfection in any relationship is the first step to sow the seeds of dissatisfaction. Like other relationships, most marriages are also not perfect. Each person has their own set of beliefs, values, ideas, personal history into a relationship and opinions that do not always match  with their partners. Instead of being threatened by those differences, if we start respecting each others point of views, chances of conflicts to crop up in a relationship can be easily brought down.

To the contrary, the differences can be incredibly beneficial to form a relationship  – you know the saying about opposites attracting. These differences can also help people accept, understand and respect opposing views and cultures.

But relationships can be tested. Differences or habits that were endearing to you earlier, may be troubling you now. There are many issues due to which your relationship will be taking a beating such as an extramarital affair or you no longer find you partner attractive. Other times, there is a gradual disintegration of communication and caring. No matter the cause, distress in a relationship can create undue tension, stress, worry, sadness, fear and other problems. Many couples tend to think that their relationship troubles will disappear on their own that is just a fallacious belief.

A bad relationship only worsens with time and eventually leads to psychological or physical problems, such as depression or anxiety. A bad relationship can also affect other family members or even friendships as people feel compelled to take sides. It is also not possible to do  well in the job on account of a bad relationship.

A panel of counselors at ApnaKarma, after sizing up the reasons owing to which your relationship is suffering, give groundbreaking solutions to mend your relationships. We have brought peace and harmony in the lives of countless couples whose relationships had reached on the verge of separation and “Divorce” seemed to be the only viable option to them. Even some couples started showing signs of improvement after attending just a few sessions. If you are finding yourself in a tight spot while maintaining good relationship with your partner, book a session with one of our counselors and we will go to great lengths to save your marriage. Firstly, we would like to make you understand that how wise and pious it is to stay in the marriage institution so that you could see the marriage in a new light and feel it absolutely unnecessary to hit the panic button at the drop of the hat. You will start noticing positive results in your relationship from the first day of attending the session. In Level 1, we will attempt to fix your marriage problems with the help of counseling. We would try to free your mind from per-conceived notions and wrongly-held belief so that you could see the situation as it is.